I watched the show "The Office" for the first time as a freshman at St. John's University. My friend Corey introduced me to the show the first day I met him. After lending me DVDs of the first two seasons, I was hooked.
About 10 to 15 of us would gather every Thursday to watch the Office in Corey and Joe's dorm room. We repeated lines from the main character Michael Scott, we joked about Dwight, and we emphasized with good-guy Jim Halpert and his quest to be with secretary Pam Beasley.
I have a tendency to think every tv show I get into captures my life perfectly. The Office wasn't any different. I thought Jim Halpert captured my essence and my eternal struggle to find romance and just be a cool guy.
A few year later, I realize I was wrong about the Office describing my life. It's characters are memorable, flawed, and lovable, but not quite like me.
The Office's NBC cousin, Parks and Recreation and its "comedy of niceness" better fits who I am and who I aspire to be. This summary by Chris Kopcow on Splitsider describes the show's intrinsic nature quite well.
The main character Leslie Knope is relentlessly positive and cares about her friends as much as her work. She finds joy in her job and is motivated by doing more good. Is it realistic? Probably not. But the thing that comforts me is that Amy Poehler, who plays Knope, is actually a pretty nice person in real life.
I read an anecdote by one of Poehler's Saturday Night Live co-stars who said Poehler took the new players out to lunch and she invited them to ask any questions to get their nerves out. I like that. I think we should treat a lot people in that way. People are scared, why make life any more difficult?
Ever since leaving Boston, I've had a lot of time to reflect on who I am and who I aspire to be. I'm not the cool, yet tragically unlucky in love early-season Jim Halpert.
I'm a nice person. I like to see my friends happy as much as I am. I like lending a helping hand. I like pancakes. I like chatting with friends about their day. I like checking in. I like making just a little bit more good in the world. #IamLeslieKnope
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